Come Hear. Go Tell.

 


The theme of the 2007 North American Baptist Women’s Union Assembly was “Come Hear. Go Tell.” But the message that came through loud and clear to the 350 or so attendees from Canada, the USA, and Guyana, was even more pointed: “Go home and tell younger people about Jesus.


Older women have a responsibility to pass on the baton of faith to the next generation,” inspirational speaker and author Esther Burroughs told the gathering in Arlington, Virginia, September 19-22. She encouraged her listeners to become spiritual grandmothers—women who mentor younger women, set a godly example, and pour themselves into the spiritual development of at least one member of the next generation. “Pray for your grandchildren, write notes to young believers, pray for your pastor’s wife, adopt spiritual daughters if you have no children of your own,” she advised.


“Older women—young women need us, not because we’re smart, but because we’re old. And we have all this life experience to pour into them,” she said.


“It just takes one in a generation to make a difference in the kingdom of God,” she said. “Don’t drop the baton.”


“I need you. You need me” was the heart cry expressed to the older women in their churches by the eight members of NABWU’s young adult committee who attended the assembly. Perhaps the most eloquent was Karen Robinson, a street pastor in Toronto, Ontario. She has several leadership roles in her church and doesn’t always have time for women’s events. But, she said, “if women’s ministries were focused on something I’m passionate about and areas in which I’m already working—like social justice, or addressing issues like poverty or the sex trade—that would capture my heart and my attention.  I also long to have opportunities to meet with older women, to find mentors, to have women praying for me, and to have wise women to encourage me and guide me through so some of the challenges of my life.”


Bible study leader Molly Marshall, president of Central
Baptist Theological Seminary in Kansas City, encouraged all the women to tell what they have seen and heard of God’s grace in their own lives. “The most compelling witness to the story of Jesus is our own testimony of transformed living.  So at all times we proclaim, using words when necessary (as St. Francis noted),” she said.


“We know how moved we are as we hear the faithful witness of missionaries. The authenticity of having ‘been there’ never fails to kindle our imaginations. They tell us what they have seen and heard.”


Dorothy Selebano of South Africa, president of the Baptist World Alliance Women’s Department, urged her North American sisters to share the message now. “Use the opportunities and privileges you have to propagate the Gospel, to be salt and light, because time is running out,” she said in one of several messages to the assembly. “The time is now. The question is, What are you doing now?”


Marian Wright Edelman, founder and president of the Children’s Defense Fund and holder of more than 100 honorary degrees, declared that it is time to reclaim the role of the church in the lives of children. “Today’s children are being shaped by peers and violent rappers instead of their parents and church,” she said. “They need to see a faith that reaches them. They need to be reconnected with caring adults.”


“The most dangerous place for a child to grow up is at the intersection of poverty and race,” she said, citing alarming statistics. In the USA:

  1. A child is neglected or abused every 35 seconds.

  2.     A child is born into poverty every 36 seconds.

  3.     A Black boy born today has a 1 in 3 chance of going to prison. A Latino boy has a 1 in 6 chance.

  4.     Only 13% of Black, 15% of Latino, and 41% of White children are able to read by fourth grade.


This is a “national catastrophe,” Marian said. “Our job is to ensure that they have a right to education” and help with the discrepancies and choices they face at every turn. She urged her American listeners to use their political influence to make sure each child gets medical, dental, and mental health benefits.


“Say: I care, and I’m ready to serve. I’m ready to do whatever I can to build a movement for children, to build a nation where every child feels welcome,” Marian said.


This was NABWU’S twelfth quinquennial assembly. It was held at the Marriott Crystal Gateway Hotel in Arlington, Virginia.






Reported by Esther Barnes







 
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Insights from the 2007 NABWU Assembly...

WHAT YOUR CHURCH CAN DO FOR AT-RISK CHILDREN

Marian Wright Edelman suggested many ways churches could make a difference in the lives of at-risk children in their communities: 
 Celebrate the children who beat the odds.
 Combat the stereotypes.
 Mentor the parents. They need help as much as the children do.
 Deal with your own hypocrisy.
 Model the behavior you want children to learn.
 Seek out examples of programs that work. 
 Have your church “adopt” a child in the child welfare system.
 Recommit yourselves to raise your voice for children, and to use what you have where you are.
 Start an after-school program.
 Revitalize your Sunday school—for adults as well as children. Set up weekly, even daily, spiritual support groups for parents. 
 Don’t settle for a one-week Vacation Bible School. Run it for six to eight weeks. Give children a positive alternative to the streets.
 Think what you can do to answer back to the harmful cultural influences.

	 


WOMEN ARE STILL SECOND-CLASS CITIZENS

Women in many parts of the world still see themselves as second-class citizens, Dorothy Selebano told a breakout session at the NABWU Assembly. 
	
In her own country, South Africa, women being educated, acquiring good jobs, and buying homes. But their African culture still tells them that women must be followers, not leaders. They are to be the servants of the family. They cannot question their husbands or say “no” to them—even if they suspect their husbands have HIV/AIDS. Their culture also teaches boys that they are superior to girls. Girls are expected to help around the house from an early age; boys do virtually nothing. African men generally give orders to their wives; they don’t discuss decisions with them. When men say “my children” they are including their wives, Dorothy said. And when these educated women do stand up for themselves, the men can’t take it, Dorothy said. The result is an increasing incidence of abuse and divorce. 

“Women are saying we’re not inferior, we’re equal. We have equal rights. Males don’t want us to say this,” Dorothy said. “But the Bible says we are.”



ARE YOU A PUBLIC SPEAKER 
OR A COMMUNICATOR?

A public speaker:
Puts the message before the people
Develops technique
Focuses on content

A communicator:
Puts people before the message
Creates atmosphere
Focuses on change

From Gayla Parker’s breakout session on Relaying the Message


SELF-DEFENSE FOR WOMEN:
THREE BASIC RULES

Stay alert. Keep your mind on your surroundings, who is in front of you, and who is behind you. Do not get distracted. If you are worried about crime, ask a friend to accompany you when you go out.

Communicate that you are calm, confident, and know where you are going. Stand tall, walk purposefully, and make quick eye contact with the people around you. 

Trust your instincts. If you feel uncomfortable in a place or situation—leave!

From Sandy Wisdom-Martin’s breakout session on Self-Defense for Women.
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ASSEMBLY SPEAKERS CHALLENGE WOMEN

TO REACH THE NEXT GENERATION

Dorothy Selebano